Ting Hun

Since Caroline is half-chinese (by way of her mom), we honoured tradition by having a Ting Hun. In Chinese culture, a Ting Hun is a formal engagement ceremony in where certain actions are taken to ensure a long and happy marraige.

Caroline's house was transformed into a reception area, complete with professionally done table centerpieces (by Balay Kandila), catered food (Josiah's Catering), and photo / video services (Lee Llamas Photography).

Here are some of the things that we had to do as part of the ceremony:
- Caroline had to walk backward down the stairs of their house. I think this signifies the fact that she will be leaving her family and that there's no turning back.
- We served tea to each others parents. In my case, since my mom and dad weren't around, Caroline served tea to my grandparents. After the tea serving, we can officially call our parents-in-law Mom and Dad. It is one way of showing respect and welcoming into the family.
- There was an exchanging of gifts, like a dowry exchange.
- We also had to eat red eggs for prosperity and noodles for long life.

Admittedly, we only had a semi Ting Hun because following all the rules of a traditional one would have been too difficult. It would have involved me bringing home a pig or 12 ducks or something. Even then, organizing an event like this on such short notice was still not an easy task!

Everybody had fun, but for me and Caroline, it was tiring. Making sure that all the guests were seated and going around greeting and taking pictures with everyone ensured that we were not able to eat until well after most of the guests had left. It was all worth it though, as family and friends from both sides were able to witness this special event.

Caroline and me with Caroline's Parents

Caroline and me with my Grandparents


La Vita e Bella!